Agape refers to divine love or unconditional love.Therefore, if anyone attaches conditions or reasons to why he or she loves you, then agape, unconditional love, has ceased. If someone uses the words “if,” “when,” or “because” when they say that they love you, this is not an unconditional perspective. Wherever there is a reason, there is a condition. Wherever there is a condition, there is expectation.Disappointment leads to division.
Monday, March 19, 2012
勇敢面对
著名的心理学家也是我心目中的大师荣格说：You have to feel, in order to heal.翻成中文是：你必须去感受，才能够得到疗愈。和你的伤痛面对面的坐着，不要害怕，就是这样看着它，感受它在你身体里攒动，心口的抽动或是腹部的痉挛、肩膀的紧缩，就是这样和它们共处于当下。看它们会停留多久。
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